4 Money Beliefs That Limit Your Wealth Inside and Out w/ Kate Northrup

4 Money Beliefs That Limit Your Wealth Inside and Out w/ Kate Northrup


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  • Eloah DRmwvr

    November 13, 2018

    This is part baby cuz of course YouTube is monitoring how much we put down in our comments but I did go back for a second to hear what she said it's value for value and that's my issue is I'm not dealing with that circle of people I'm not in the Stream of where people desire that's the only thing they want is a ride so that's where the issue comes from and you'll see some of that here in Part B

    I will have to disagree with the observation that some wealthy people are actually extremely selfish I've met a lot of them in my car and those are the ones that don't usually tip no one said they had to but even $8 would be helpful because that would cover some of my expenses and I'm sure someone here is going to say what a bad attitude and relationship she has with money I suppose you could say that I've been working pretty hard and I was taking care of my son up until he left April or May and then I ended up trying to take care of myself so we all know that we pay for convenience that isn't cheap it adds up even though I don't live the same life other people do and I do try and take care meaning I Do by take out not really fast food drive-thru ever and a lot of times I will opt out of both of those options and go to a health food store and try to buy organic and I might eat a bag of grapes I might eat some celery I might eat hummus everything I do is in this car except for showering and going to the bathroom I was in the midst of The Dark Night of the soul and I'm coming out now on the other end and seeing a small progress in a short amount of time just by removing my money from my bank account of course when you make money you have to spend and some days are good and some days are mediocre the apple tree doesn't grow overnight from seed so I am making an effort I would just like to start being connected with people who believe in the things that I believe in and we're actually making some changes in this world my issue is I'm mingling with people who don't value what I do and try to get as much as I can for absolutely nothing or very little I guess they think it's included in the ride I actually did have someone say that to me oh wow a ride and free guidance and I looked at him and I said nothing is free in other words it shouldn't be it should be appreciated and some token of gratitude should be shown but he was one of the people that did not tip is the way for people to give a donation because the information I give can be pretty life-changing for example I had a man in my car that is from Slovenia his wife is in West Virginia and he is here in North Carolina I was picking up on issues that his wife was having medically and giving him some information that I thought would be helpful but he wasn't aware of who I was picking up on and kept telling me that I wasn't picking up on him and he was right I was also picking up on certain things with him and gave him the information I thought would be useful which he did confirm for me he was amazed at least outwardly and before he mentioned what he thought it was worth monetarily which of course I can't go by he mentioned that he really would like me to meet with his wife and that he would be willing to pay me and out of joking I said how much do you feel it would be worth and he said at least $200 and then when he got out of my car he said if nothing else at least a nice meal and he was aware that I live in my car so he wanted my number in order to contact me in the future we had established even him information that would be beneficial for both of them so essentially it's like seeing a doctor everyone is all too ready to pay and then after the ride was ended I gave him 24 hours to see what he would do with it knowing intuitively there would be no show of gratitude and there wasn't I there for contacting him and very politely told him that these are the types of energies and individuals that I choose to stay away from the ones that actually have issues with money and live in a place of lack and I then let him know that I would be blocking any further Communications I felt that that might have been a little extreme but it's important for us to be both yin and yang you have your feminine and your masculine energies one is Mercy and one is severity these individuals have to understand something has to happen in her life that opens their eyes to the way that they're living and hopefully take some to a better place

    I left my email address in the first part of my comment below but I also forgot not only do I not shower cuz the bathroom in my vehicle I do laundry and yes I am having faith my shower so I try to stretch things out and maintain myself I think for a little while I was investing too much in take good care of myself have a storage unit that I paid really I'm only using like a very small car they're just honest and though they had something smaller they will not willing to offer it to me because of course they were trying to make as much money as possible it's just been a real challenge to constantly feel taken for granted perseverance is not an issue for me I'm definitely persistent and sometimes to a fault I think that's when it challenges well and that doesn't get enough attention you have to know when to cut your losses you also have to know how to discern and you have to be able to let go so I have a new philosophy and that is if it doesn't flow let it go. My slate has been completely wiped clean and I am an absolute free agent willing to make any adjustments that are necessary to help pull myself out of this a little guidance or direction is greatly appreciated

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  • Nicole Kunz

    November 13, 2018

    Love videos like this

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  • Chris Carter

    November 13, 2018

    "COOL"

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  • Newgirl Tee

    November 14, 2018

    This is so good!

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  • Elizabeth Lafontant

    November 14, 2018

    I really love the breakdown of transaction. Money is just an exchange of value. It is a very obvious point but I believe I'm speaking for many when I say that is easy to forget.

    I vow to try to always remember to recognize my worth and check my bank account balance everyday and give gratitude for ways my life is abundant.

    Thank you!

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  • JEEVITHA M

    November 14, 2018

    Thank You so much😊

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  • Μary Proia

    November 14, 2018

    It is not necessarily a bad thing NOT to be good at budgeting. We all know this for a fact. So don't just try to convince us that most people or even ALL people can manage their money. Otherwise there would be fewer money troubles for all of us. Take Greece for example. My country is currently going through financial hell because of the handling of money and debt by dangerous people aka our left wing government. Have a good night. Yours, Mary

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  • Monique Mercier

    November 14, 2018

    Excellent discussion.
    Great Video.

    One action I can take is to value more what I have to offer to my clients and others to enhance their lives.

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  • Abigail Fernandes

    November 15, 2018

    Omg so on point. Thank you!!!

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  • Gina Edmonds

    November 15, 2018

    you guys helped me, I needed this!

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  • SandySinden

    November 19, 2018

    WOW, belief 1 was good to hear someone say out loud. I don't feel so alone and crazy.

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  • Joan Orr

    November 20, 2018

    What a fantastic video!

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  • San Diego Barbie

    November 22, 2018

    Love this channel money work for me 👸🏻

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  • Iara Caitano

    November 23, 2018

    Great episode!!! Thank you
    I think my greatest limiting money belief is that I always doubting myself 😰

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  • Diana welvaert

    November 23, 2018

    The first time I watched this video, I had the same reaction that alot of you had before. However, I also believe that you can gleen some good nuggets from most things. I think keeping an open mind is key. No matter what Kates situation is, our own blocks are all the excuses we throw up so we dont hear the good things that will help us. I dont really care about her situation. But my own money beliefs I can shift. <3

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  • Remy Sanil

    November 24, 2018

    I truly loved watching your video Marie with your guest Kate.I am quite good at earning money but poor in saving.From today I am going to change this belief and start making affirmations that I am a saver.I will start looking at my bank account everyday ,to spend less than I save.Thank you so much Marie.Lots of love and prayers. (Remy from Mumbai India)

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  • Samantha Amaral

    November 25, 2018

    Thanks you

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  • AerialKnight0714

    November 26, 2018

    If we're not seeing our worth, we're not going to get the value and exchange for that- very true quote.

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  • Sheena Rehema

    November 27, 2018

    Great tips

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  • Desi Tahiraj

    November 27, 2018

    I love it thank you

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  • TheSunshinefee

    November 28, 2018

    One of my money holding belief that is holding me back is the belief that only men can become rich.

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  • Lena Young

    November 28, 2018

    Greetings Marie, just discovered your channel 18 minute ago, heartfelt topic that needed to be spoken about. This discussion definitely pierced through some stone-wall ideals I've somehow carried with me without awareness. The disguised for me was that those I'v deemed as financial stable had someone to help them along the way! My resolve to the matter is, I desire a better story then suffering without a cause. We all go through challenges BECAUSE we are advancing to a better version of ourselves. You BOTH have been enlightening the process. Thanks

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  • Capitol SAGE

    November 28, 2018

    Thanks for telling the truth lady.

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  • Rebecca Petrovic

    November 28, 2018

    I have been working on changing this thing I say all the time… "I'm not a lucky person." Though I have always held that I make my own luck… Just saying out loud that I'm not a lucky person seems to be a terrible thing that stands in my way. I feel this is part of the "Not being enough" concept that I do know plagues me. So there it is I AM A LUCKY PERSON, because I am enough, I am smart enough, I am strong enough,I am committed enough, and I really deserve good things… AND I DO make my own LUCK!!

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  • J Jay

    November 28, 2018

    Thank you for this really good talk.

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  • Sabrina Fantaye

    November 29, 2018

    I am not smart enough. Feel stuck knowing which way to go about it

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  • sedameansstrong

    November 30, 2018

    I love your shoes Marie!! 😍❤️

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  • White Kandlez

    November 30, 2018

    Budgetin doesnt exist when you dont even make enough to have a budget

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  • Tres L

    November 30, 2018

    Ok, wat does she do? Do did she pay off debt in months. These interviews are always so vague. Sigh!its frastrating!

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  • Jonas Capacite

    November 30, 2018

    the belief that has held me back but no longer!!!! is that money is the root of all evil. it was great to hear it on your show that it money is spiritual as to how you use it. thanks!

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  • Kim Staflund

    December 1, 2018

    Thank you

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  • Michelle Renee

    December 1, 2018

    THIS. Thank you!! ❤️

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  • 1forevery

    December 2, 2018

    I’ve been debt free a couple times and STILL didn’t find my purpose when I was completely debt free…soooo I ended up getting into debt once again…and again!😩 I’m in the process of paying it off again..for the LAST TIME! I’m older and wiser and finally ok with living within my means!

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  • S willason

    December 2, 2018

    I have always felt as if I have to have enough $$$ to carry my close relatives before I can enjoy what I have. So bc I have not yet brought in enough $$$ to carry 5 households I never felt like I deserved to be financially satisfied.

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  • Yuly Rodriguez

    December 2, 2018

    Beautiful

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  • Medusa Cooper

    December 2, 2018

    No one will support me .
    Support myself!

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  • vicav001

    December 2, 2018

    What a good, energizing, rich in content, down to earth 🌎 , full of personal real experiences interview!! I have to say Thank you both and keep a vibrant spirit on the life journey. Saludos desde Panama 🇵🇦.

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  • Celine Crotty

    December 2, 2018

    Loved this Video. Thanks for all the advice.

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  • Aki Scott

    December 3, 2018

    My money belief is: I don't have enough…no matter the increase, it is never enough…just my bad belief 😒😢

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  • Monique Johnson

    December 3, 2018

    GREAT advice!

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  • Melizza Delgado

    December 3, 2018

    Noticed there’s only 518K subscribers under her channel, and wondering why when compared to other YouTube channels like hers , who started after her, why they have more followers? I did notice something interesting …. well I immediately felt my face go from normal gazing to frown and concerned within the first 22 secs in….& it hit me!! Marie’s facial expressions betray her words- she seems slightly uncomfortable or hesitant in her body language and tired at certain points…. and i felt uncomfortable going forward…and then I remember Vanessa Van Edwards…she did a whole study on Facial expressions and what they convey …& there are some practical ideas her studies reveal…judging by Marie’s straight eyebrows and thinner lips and squared jaw…she automatically comes off serious….which isn’t a bad thing actually it’s good for her line of business….but when trying to reach an invisible audience …you need a little charisma…that goes for any gender and any platform… when I’ve seen videos where she’s more confident and energetic I sense conviction and joy in that she gets to ‘gift’ something valuable to others and I want a piece of her gift…that’s how I see it, everyone is different…& Vanessa Van Edwards studies show how it’s a great asset to learn how others see things because you can learn to connect better …isn’t that the point of social media platforms anyways?

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  • Deedee Richardson

    December 3, 2018

    This video come on my feed for a reason and at the right time.

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  • Denice Dunigan

    December 3, 2018

    Ughhh I love your voice 😍😍 please come over and talk me to sleep 😂😂

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  • Eugina Oleinikova

    December 3, 2018

    I have had 2 beliefs: Who's got the money is the one to blame and the other one is that I was scared of money: what to do about it- keep shining and offering the value to my people!!

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  • Melissa Africa

    December 4, 2018

    I don't have debt but I want to help my boyfriend get out of debt.

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  • DBrown The Poet

    December 4, 2018

    Money belief: That I don’t have enough
    What I can do to shift that: I can send my son to school with a few bucks so he can treat himself and a friend to a snack at lunch today.
    I can do small acts like that each day.
    Hmmm… 🤔 Just the thought of that shifted something in me!

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  • Faye Patrice

    December 4, 2018

    My negative belief is that pursuing more money will take away the little bit of peace I have managed to find exactly where I am. More money means more stress, more responsibility, less family time and less happiness at this point in time. I am dealing with it by thinking of the ways that money will add to my life and recognizing that I will still have free time when I am earning more.

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  • naduni liyanapathirana

    December 4, 2018

    Having money in hand i'd end up spending

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  • RAMDANI Ouafaâ

    December 4, 2018

    Thank you Mary I learned a lot today. Love you 😊💖

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  • Renee R

    December 6, 2018

    My belief is I don’t make enough to live

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  • Aniko Amália

    December 6, 2018

    What holds me back is the belief that I am not wanted not supported not safe not free… So journal out 21 days Freedom here I come 💔💜💖💟

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  • S G

    December 17, 2018

    I feel like I will always have just enough for what I need and nothing more. That I will forever be just getting buy paycheck to paycheck and I am not sure how to get past that.

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  • Daisha Williams

    January 13, 2019

    Rich discussions 💓

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  • C. Huseyin

    January 16, 2019

    Thanks blessings and 🍿

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  • AcousticGuitarTeacher

    January 25, 2019

    Thank you for this video you two 😉

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  • Agnes CFLee

    February 22, 2019

    learning something new from each interview on this channel. Nice !!

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  • Koroglu Rustem

    February 22, 2019

    4 beliefs holding you back getting your financial freedom
    1. Someone else should/will do this for me
    2. I am not good with money
    3. People with money are greedy OR it's not spiritual to have money
    4. I am not …… enough

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  • Ed Zen

    February 23, 2019

    I think the part all these conversations leave out is that most people work and pay out all their income to cover basic living expenses and there is no money left to upskill or re invest where do you go from there.

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  • szumsia

    February 26, 2019

    I am 36 years old …. but I feel like a baby who is just learing to walk

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  • R R

    March 7, 2019

    @12:30 yes!!

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  • Evie St

    March 13, 2019

    I LOVE this! Thank you so much for all you do Marie. I always learn something with each video I watch ☺

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  • Esther E

    March 13, 2019

    Great video. The belief that I have to work really hard for it to come my way. That it is conditional. That I cannot just receive it or ask for it. Which feels exhausting. While I see other people around me just randomly receiving money without doing anything. Money isn't conditional I know that. I see it is a belief of my parents and how they related to money.

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  • Rebecca Harrison

    March 15, 2019

    Another amazing AHA moment for me … this was completely and utterly me !!! I have implemented your steps and bought the book Kate !!! Marie I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL ❤️👑

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  • phyliciajoykloes

    March 16, 2019

    "Seeing money as a means of value exchange" is a sentence that stuck with me. Good talk.

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  • anne laabs

    March 27, 2019

    i grew up in such a way that it was insanely important, especially for women, to be modest. if money is important to you, you are selfish, greedy, stingy, dogged, anything negative you can imagine. i gave away so much money in my life, really gave it away to prove to myself that i'm not selfish. it was such a deep conviction of me that it took years until i dindnt feel bad and guilty anymore when i was asking a friend to give me back the money i had borrowed him.

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  • Colleen Oconnor

    March 29, 2019

    I just saw this. I have started implementing the looking at your finances and I don't do it every day but I have noticed more freelance jobs coming in. No money yet but it may have a lot to do with that. I didn't even think of that. I'll bump it to every day and see what happens. Thanks – and I'm in Bschool class of 2019

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  • Monica Sloane

    April 1, 2019

    The belief that is holding me back is that I'm a creative and creative jobs don't pay well. That's rubbish though if I'm good at what I do, and I start to value my work properly and charge accordingly. I can invest, I can wait tables in between creative work, and I can build my own business with limitless growth potential.

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  • Jeanette Tuhi

    April 1, 2019

    I love you Marietv but I cannot relate to either of you right now

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  • Kimberly Red Hendrixx

    April 3, 2019

    My bad money belief: I'm selfish if I spend money on myself or even put myself first. I also had a problem saying "no."
    I used to sneak to buy myself anything, yet I would give my family everything. Being a single parent, I would feel guilty everytime I did something for myself. Almost like I worked hard, yet didn't feel like I deserved to reap the rewards of my hardwork. I practically worked, pay bills, work, pay bills… Most people would look forward to their paychecks, me, I dreaded it.
    My mom told me, "each time you get paid do something for yourself." That worked out half-assed.
    I was still dealing with my emotional money issues, until recently. I just got tired of feeling that way. We are not talking five years, we're talking "now my kids are grown" years. I figured I'd try something new. Cause what the hell I had to lose, I was already rock bottom.
    I began saying abundance and prosperity affirmations and giving thanks multiple times a day. I also tell myself that "I am worthy & deserving of abundance." I mean every single day.
    I feel better, positive, light. Like a heavy weight is lifted off my shoulders. I've also noticed positive changes happening because I'm changing my mindset. Anyways, didn't mean to write a soliloquy. But, hey, here we are.
    Thank you Ladies for such a great video!

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  • Khalarni Rivers

    April 5, 2019

    I enjoyed every minute of this. What’s been holding me back is because I’ve been so caught up in trying to focus on the “positive” aspects of life, I’ve been avoiding things like my credit score or the amount of money in my bank account. I’ll make it a habit to look at my account every morning and link that visual and feeling to 3 things that I’m grateful for. Thanks!

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  • Blessed Life

    April 8, 2019

    Thank you!

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  • C' ZO!

    April 8, 2019

    This is so enlightening on so many levels. Money, you just have to learn how to treat it and it will treat you great in return. Ladies you are beautiful. Kate is just the most gorgeous blonde lady I ve seen in quite some time.

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  • krishna sharma

    April 9, 2019

    I love your work
    Thanks

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  • Brooke Herron

    April 9, 2019

    probably would be good to specify how you made $20000 in 6 months to pay off that debt, that is not something many people could do; If they could only do $5000/year they would end up paying double that amount after interest and it would still take them 4-5 years. Sometimes reality is also piece of the picture. Starting from a new premise-absolutely. But wiping $20k in debt in 6 months is something only those making a lot of money (by most people's standards) could do

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  • yshk viswanatham

    April 27, 2019

    Without giving next level means you escape in further. Three years worked in research work produced I don't need higher money I want low amount if you have no you are very poor in your position what you give in previously to develpo believe on you you have no helping nature .94 times fail who cannot discuss it it is big game only going in the nature .yshk viswanatham MscBed.

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  • yshk viswanatham

    April 27, 2019

    What you build in me confidence 94 times fail who can do help to me is boosting only .you have no good idea to help to .me fail fail fail ….

    ….fail ……
    No confidence on you you are not educated human .fail fail this program .

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  • yshk viswanatham

    April 27, 2019

    Three years work on research they get all benfits but they won't pay single dallor I ask them 93 times what they give to me if they educated then they will do correct work otherwise they will fail in work .who believe in their work small amount no big amount nil this is their position what can I do now ?

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  • yshk viswanatham

    April 27, 2019

    My work free it is not hard free service they are very poor in financial they cannot help to me for their help 94 times fail what can I do now .?

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  • yshk viswanatham

    April 27, 2019

    What start nothing believe on you you fail in many more times what you help to me .

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  • yshk viswanatham

    April 27, 2019

    No minimum No maximum your tendeny going what you give when you give it it is big problem to me .

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  • SuperDubess

    April 29, 2019

    Wasn't my belief to begin with but one I've been told by my family (as recent as a year ago & I'm over 50 – damn, give it a rest already!) is that I am bad with money, always have been, always will be. Brings up such sadness. I am trying to move past it but honestly, have no idea. I tap, meditate & try to think positively.

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  • Mo Nika

    April 30, 2019

    Love it… Struggle with all… Will implement all…

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  • Jared Jacobson Law

    May 4, 2019

    Great advice thank u 🙏

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  • Joy Cohen

    June 4, 2019

    I think my bad money belief is because I grew up in a house full of spenders and did not have the knowledge of saving money; I used this as an excuse to spend money and not regard the consequences. The change I can make is to look at my finances and have a hard look at the choices I have made and how it has affected my self-esteem and my relationships.

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  • Travis Ahmed

    June 5, 2019

    Practice my talents daily

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  • Thor's SthrnBtrfly

    July 6, 2019

    It takes about 66 days to form a new habit…

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  • Jeanne Watson

    July 7, 2019

    my terrible money belief is that i am just about to make a ton of money – something is about to turn and then all my debt will get paid off but i see myself spending and spending and i know its standing in for something. is it self worth? is it loneliness or emptiness – i know i have to figure it out and get on top of it now because otherwise when i do make a ton of money my financial woes will only increase as i have more money to spend! gosh!!! just worked out a few things there in typing it. horrifying but maybe seeing it in black and white will make it easier to address.

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  • Jarl Banana

    July 18, 2019

    "It's a big one"

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  • Balaji Ganesh

    July 28, 2019

    Well well… Marie..I can't thank you enough

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  • Kazzie P

    August 9, 2019

    first time I've met Kate Northrup and I loved this video.. she is clear and direct with her messages and tips, I feel confident about embracing some new habits, this was just what I needed to hear! You both served me today, thank you :))

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  • amyski47

    September 4, 2019

    My belief that holds me back is that I will never know enough about money to start doing the smart things with it, paying off debt, investing. I have started to read financial books and listen to Marie's videos and trying to not be so afraid of educating myself about money.

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  • Ada Blane

    September 20, 2019

    One money belief that I'm struggling with right now is "I'm bad with money because I've always been bad with money," buttt it's already been a month of some new behaviors and big changes SO I'm not bad with it really, I'm getting better 😉 One thing I plan to do to demonstrate that I'm ready for a new level of abundance is actually downsize to a smaller apartment to put towards what I'd usually pay for rent into my retirement account. 😉 Also less vacuuming, yay! hahah

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  • Kristy Daniels

    September 29, 2019

    One belief that holds me back is living beyond paycheck to paycheck!! One thing I'm trying to change about that is tithe more and increase my job skills where I can earn more money. Also believing in myself and my abilities!!😉

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  • Kimmy Queen

    September 30, 2019

    I agree… Money is a tool… nothing less nor more. How you use it is the issue. Best to use it for service for yourself, for your family, for your community and for your deity/Deity (obviously a benevolent one).

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  • Jannet Garcia Ball

    October 9, 2019

    👏👏👏

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  • Emily Anne

    October 13, 2019

    I fight with the belief that money is scarce and something to be afraid of. Working on turning it into a tool

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  • Ace Hardy

    October 24, 2019

    💲🙌

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  • elijah meza

    November 6, 2019

    How did you generate the $20k extra income in 6months?

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  • Art For Arts Sake

    November 7, 2019

    I'd been avoiding checking my business account….I watched this and checked it….extra unexpected money had gone in….now I check it every day thanks!

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  • KG

    November 7, 2019

    Oh what a time to finally watch your videos, Marie! Thank you for all the value you've added to my life, kind of magic actually)

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